November 2011
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apakabar nih dunia persilatan pascasarjananya?
Semakin menggila Feb! :D
go on, surprise me, ask me anything
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lebih penting mana menurut lo, Tuhan atau Agama?
Tuhan :]
go on, surprise me, ask me anything
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LDR itu berat ga sih dhe?
Wah, pertanyaan tentang LDR :D
Sebetulnya tergantung masing-masing orang ya. Dibilang berat ya ada beratnya juga karena ga bisa ketemu sering-sering ya.
Jarak fisik memang variabel yang cukup penting, tapi kembali lagi ke masing-masing orang. Mau jauh atau dekat jarak fisiknya, kalau hatinya tidak merasa ‘dekat’ dan komunikasinya nggak lancar, tetap ga berhasil juga.
Saya ngomong...
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formspring.me
go on, surprise me, ask me anything http://www.formspring.me/dheasekararum
August 2011
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“In relationship, some people are in a hurry to get somewhere else, to become...”
– Levant & Pollack —from the textbook A New Psychology of Men
July 2011
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June 2011
5 posts
Having been tired of walking,
for the road is not always easy to walk on,
When you find a place where you could at least take a rest,
And feel safe,
You started to think that maybe you can stay a bit longer
You secretly wish you don’t have to walk no more
You secretly wish that this is home
on scenes from an adventure
ramdaffe:
we see the same sky and wondered whether this afternoon sky will last a minute more than we expected it to be.
or an hour. or two.
or more than we ever expected it to be.
“Neng, kamera underwaternya neng, buat moto ikan neeeng~”
– Ramda Yanurzha, 22 tahun. Mengomentari post saya sebelumnya.
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Mengambil Kesempatan Untuk Menyelam Lebih Dalam
Halo, selamat pagi.
Langsung saja lah ya. *uhuk* Beberapa di antara teman-teman mungkin ada yang sudah mengetahui bahwa saya sekarang *uhuk* punya pacar lagi. Untuk orang-orang tertentu, memutuskan untuk menjalani sebuah hubungan romantis dan berkomitmen mungkin perkara mudah, mungkin orang-orang ini adalah mereka yang pemberani, serta tidak takut mengambil risiko. Mungkin juga mereka sudah...
May 2011
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Kepada Apa Yang Tidak Selalu Ada :
Terimakasih telah memberiku kesempatan untuk merindu,
Seperti halnya jeda yang ada antara kata, yang membikin ia dapat dibaca, yang membuatnya justru mencipta makna.
Mungkin sederhana, mungkin juga sementara.
Mungkin hanya ini yang saya punya.
Apa yang tidak selalu ada, saya bahagia, sekiranya.
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R: Aku butuh telepati kamus.
D: Aku cuma punya kamus untuk membaca hatimu.
R: Pasti kamusnya tipis. Tidak banyak isi hatiku. Hanya namamu.
D: Ah apalah artinya namaku, kalau tak ditambah dengan nama belakangmu?
R: ....... wanjir di-smash
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Fun
And fun is all I could get, when everything else seems to be unaffordable at this moment.
And fun would be perfectly fine.
Fail
‘I don’t want to find myself downgrading my intellectual capability when I talk with a girl. Hence, she has to be very clever’
— Some guys actually think this way. As for me, humbleness has always been captivating, indeed :)
April 2011
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A Blogpost : Sebagai Dua Orang Manusia Dewasa (?) →
“Sekarang hubungan aku dan Mama sudah seperti partner bagi satu sama lain. Kami banyak berdiskusi dan bertukar pikiran mengenai apapun. Mama nggak pernah berpandangan bahwa anak itu harus mengabdi pada orangtua. Bagi beliau, anak nantinya akan memiliki hidupnya sendiri dan berdiri sebagai manusia yang mandiri.”
Demikian penuturan salah seorang teman sekelas saya saat saya ...
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What I hate the most about Tumblr :
Everybody re-blogs everything.
March 2011
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On Plan(s)
I wonder, while everything needs to be planned carefully,
often people ask you,
“what are your plans?”
“or what do you plan to do?”
Let’s see, what’s the most perfect plan you can ever think of?
Well, I plan to be……
surprised.
On Regret
In fact, many of us suffer greatly based on our belief that if we’d only zigged instead of zagged at a crucial moment in our past, our present would be so much better. But even if today you find yourself experiencing horrible suffering as a result of a decision you once made, any confidence you feel that some other choice would have brought you to a present filled with far less is wholly...
“Ada satu negeri yang dihuni para bedebah
Lautnya pernah dibelah tongkat Musa...”
– Negeri Para Bedebah - Adhie Massardi
“Bahasa adalah sumber ontologis dari kekuasaan. Setiap kali bahasa diucapkan,...”
– Rocky Gerung, Dosen Filsafat FIB UI, dalam Rahim Laki-Laki. Majalah Berita Mingguan Tempo, edisi 28 Feb-6Mar 2011
“Perempuan mengucapkan kalimat untuk memelihara komunikasi. Laki-laki...”
– Rocky Gerung, Dosen Filsafat FIB UI, dalam Rahim Laki-Laki. Majalah Berita Mingguan Tempo, edisi 28 Feb-6Mar 2011
February 2011
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On Saved Time
Jesse: You know what drives me crazy?
Céline: What?
Jesse: It's all these people talking about how great technology is, and how it saves all this time. But, what good is saved time, if nobody uses it? If it just turns into more busy work.
Céline: Yeah.
Jesse: Right, I mean, you never hear somebody say, "Well, you know, with, uh, the time I've saved by using my word processor, I'm gonna go to a Zen monastery and hang out." I mean, you never hear that
(Taken from the movie Before Sunrise)
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Kadang kita sulit sembunyi dari rasa, demikian kita berkelit lewat rumitnya rangkaian kata. Demi menjaga semua agar tetap sederhana.
Aku inginkan sejenak kita pura-pura lupa. Walau kita sama-sama tahu, apa yang tersembunyi oleh kata, semudah itu ditelanjangi tatapan mata.
Dan kita saling menunggu, akankah ia sirna.
Jika saja.
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Did you know?
I never want to look at your eyes every time we had our conversation.
For I’m so afraid I might fall into them.
I turned my head from you every time I laughed.
So that you wouldn’t realised how I’m captivated with the way you laughed.
Or when I said I don’t want to have a crush on you or be in a relationship.
Just because I don’t want to get hurt if you ever...
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Suddenly I miss all simplicity we once had.
When everything was easier to predict. Without any hesitation over subtle signals. Without any intricacies.
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Random (Unimportant) Facts #5
Pssstt..
Here’s a ridiculous one.
I get to think that some people writings which involving words about a glass of coffee or a pack of cigarettes are somewhat ‘cool’
Unfortunately, I don’t smoke and I don’t drink coffee. So I couldn’t make those kind of writings.
- D! -
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Watchnamasayakinsi:
astie:
sayaurum:mandaflewaway:
CLICK TO MAKE SOME MUSIC
ASLI KEREN BANGET!
klik random2 aja banyak2.
jadi musik! serius jadi musik!
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Balada Bosan #3
“Pinta saya sederhana, saya ingin kembali jatuh cinta, (untuk kemudian pula dicinta), hingga melihat percikan itu dari bola matanya saat ia beradu pandang dengan saya,
pinta saya sederhana, saya ingin kembali jatuh cinta, (sekali lagi, untuk kemudian pula dicinta) yang membuat saya lancar merangkai sajak-sajak yang kemudian membikin kita tertawa bersama. Tanpa perlu lagi mengumbar tanya.
...
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Balada Bosan #2
“pinta saya sederhana, ingin menjadi teman terakhir bertukar tutur, sebelum mimpi mencurimu dalam tidur” (saya)
“pinta saya sederhana, setiap pagi kita akan bertukar pikiran selayaknya orang yang berpengertian” (Pravitasari)
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Balada Bosan
“Biarkan aku tinggal di balik bola matamu,
aku ingin tahu bagaimana caramu melihat dunia” (Disa)
“…dan bagaimana hidup dimaknai lewat keduanya” (saya)
January 2011
12 posts
“The so-called ‘psychotically depressed’ person who tries to kill herself doesn’t...”
– David Foster Wallace (via chvnx, astronauts)
COOOLLLL!!!
(via kneels-a-lot)
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“Jika kebetulan terjadi terlalu banyak, apakah kamu percaya bahwa itu tidak...”
– Ayu Utami, dalam Manjali dan Cakrabirawa
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#30harimenulis, Day 6: Odds →
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on two sides
A: Have you ever feel that you pray too much for your own sake?
B: There's no such thing as "too much" in praying.
A: No, I mean, have you ever feel that you pray too few for everything else?
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#30harimenulis, day 5: Small Things That Matter →
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#30harimenulis, Day 4: instan →
I’m getting left behind on this project. Laaameeee~
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#30harimenulis, Day 3: Ada Apa Dengan Menjadi... →
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#30harimenulis, Day 2: Masa Lalu Sebagai Pilihan... →
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#30harimenulis, Day 1: Darah Tinggi, Atau? →
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#30harimenulis →
A challenge I wish to accomplish within this holiday. Feel free to join us :)
December 2010
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“Put simply, our minds are not designed to allow us to have more than a very...”
– Robin Dunbar (via tenones)
Also insightful:
The critical component in social networking is the removal of time as a constraint. In the real world, according to research by myself and others, we devote 40 percent of our limited social time each week to the five most important people we know,...
Accidentally Awed
Zack: I think my instincts about people are way better than yours
Billie: Why do you say that?
Zack: Well, you picked me. But, I picked you.
(Taken from Accidentally On Purpose sitcom)
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“Have patience with everything that remains unsolved in your heart. Try to love...”
– Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet